We had to get our playing done early today to try to beat the heat. Thunder plays pretty nicely with other dogs with a little bit of guidance. Dogs running side by side is a pretty good sign that play is going well.
Dogs taking breaks during play is another good sign. Instead of continuing to wind up, it's better if she self-regulates a bit and slows when needed.
Dogs also do what is called self handicapping. Even though she is clearly bigger that this puppy, she inhibits her bite and gets down low and small when playing with him. A little vocalization is normal but it shouldn't get too intense.
Some conflict is normal but, again, it shouldn't be intense. Even though Thunder is tugging with this dog, she should fairly easily give up on the game if need be and neither one should start to get possessive of the toy.
She should be attentive to you even when she's out having a good time. Checking in periodically is a very good sign.
She should easily come out of play when you call her as well. It's not very realistic to expect her to come when you have just released her to go play but it shouldn't take more than a minute or so for her to be ready to check in with you again.
So what do you do if she's not listening? What if she's playing too rough and not responding to you when you are asking her to take it down a notch? You should be able to easily interrupt that kind of behavior with a calm voice. If you can't?
A quick time-out will teach her that she needs to listen or play will end. Just putting her in a sit between your legs, holding on to her chest, and not giving her any attention for a couple of minutes is enough to get her to settle a bit and learn to behave more properly.
Too hot today so it's time to head inside.
But we can continue our play inside.
And, when she needs a little break, quietly chewing on a chew is a great way to end the day.